Let me tell you a story about a girl named Jessica. Jessica had to grow up fast, she lived in a broken home with a parents’ love that didn’t last. At only 8 years old, she had to think about her future and not the kind of dream of what she wanted to be when she’s older but the kind where how was she going to prove herself and steered clear of others prediction of her future as a lost cause like her parents was.
She grew up being a good girl, obeying rules, and living up to society’s standards. She graduated with honors, got a job at a well-known conglomerate. Jessica became successful or so she thought.
Jessica thought when she’s finally “successful” in her career, and when she’s financially stable, she’s going to be happy. She’s got everything except the love and care that she craved for from her parents when she was little.
No matter how hard she tried to fix the damage her parents did to her, she cannot find a way to forget and mend herself from it. After everything that she went through, after all the successes that she accomplished, the wound is still open.
Jessica is now in her 30’s, she’s got everything. She can buy anything that she wants. Jessica is sufficing everything that she lacked when she was young, she dreamt of this yet, she goes home everyday at an empty big home, all alone.
The story of Jessica shows how parents affect a child. I’m no psychologist but parents don’t know how traumatic it is for a kid, growing up in a broken home and with so little love. Jessica is just an example of someone having a great mindset to deal with her situation, she persevere to become successful while others in her situation develops severe mental illness, and some just throw their life away because they believed that they were brought out into the world unwanted. I hope people understand that a child absorbs everything that their family do and don’t do. Everything that they do to their child, will forever be instilled in them until they become a parent as well.
All of us didn’t choose to be born, we are here because two people had libido and we’re the outcome. These two people decided for us and we are their consequences and we’ll carry it for the rest of our lives.
From time to time, I will tell you a story about things I picked up throughout life that has some lessons, inspirations, motivation, or just plainly stories I would like to share with you. 😊
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very well written
broken homes has much effect on child’s mental health
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Yep, I hope soon to be parents know that.
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This is a huge eye opener and beautifully written. It really does psychologically affect a child, growing up an environment without love and constant neglect. It can go on to affect the child’s relationships in the future as they see it as ‘normal’ to be that way.
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Exactly! It really affects their whole life. Thank you Hannah
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It’s a pleasure 🌺✨
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Wonderful story. Loved reading it.
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Thank youuu 🤗
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Agree with you. It is hard to grow up to begin with, and to add to that the challenge of a broken home, it could be unthinkable. It is great when the kids grow up and are able to be motivated by their early struggles, but it is unfortunate how sometimes this becomes a permanent burden.
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True. No matter how hard they try to unload the baggage, it still feels heavy.
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Please watch this, it totally was a turning point that enabled me to shed all chains of past influences and experiences, change my life, and be free and happy. May it help you too ✨💖✨. https://youtu.be/CqXFWQaW5_s
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Thank you so much 🤗 I will watch the video when I have the time. It’s a really long video 😅
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I can understand it. How it feels when no one understands you in your home. The behavior of parents remains with children life long.
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It can cause trauma to be honest.
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Amazing story✨💫❤️
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Thank you 😊
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