IT’S OKAY IF YOUR JOB IS NOT YOUR PASSION

Credits to Payscale.com

Back when I was still in college, I’d always dreamed the life of making money out of doing something that I love. Until, I went on that road of being a corporate slave and be stuck at a job that I didn’t pretty much enjoyed. I even wrote a blog post about it, which pretty much contradicts this post. (Glad to have this blog to look back on what I believed in the past).

Right now, I realized something and that is it’s okay if I’m not doing the thing that I love as my job. Some people are lucky that they get to do their passion and make it as their careers but I guess I am more lucky that I still earn money and I still get to do the things that I love without any pressure.

I know a lot of people these days are pretty much into pursuing their passion as their careers and that is great. But for those who are struggling to make that happen, this is your assurance that it is definitely fine that you are working at a job that you hate right now just to pay your dues. Be thankful for it because you still earn money and I believe you spend that money to buy and do the things that you love.

Honestly, if you think about it, we all get pressured and stressed from any work that we do. And we go to our hobby and passion as a way to escape from that chaotic part of our life. Imagine if these two are combined into one, where do you run when the thing that you love doing is where you get your anxiety from? Your once stress reliever is now your stressor?

There is an upside to your job not being your passion, you get to separate your profession from your passion. You are lucky because you still have that escape, I know some people who lost all their interests from their passion because it is their job at the same time, and I hate seeing that. Because they used to love doing that so much until their two worlds collided and they couldn’t distinguished their passion from their profession. I see a lot of kids/teens these days getting depressed about it, even myself thinks about it. Because I see all these quotes and posts about how everyone should pursue their passion, which you could see in my old post. People need to realize that not everyone has the same privilege and opportunities to go after their passion. Some people even need to give that up for the sake of providing more for their families. That is why don’t believe everything you read on the internet especially those false motivation that create fake ideals. I am not saying that you should stop going after what you want, and be contented in a job that you hate. It’s just some people out there are afraid to go after it or are having a hard time to get there, and this post is a reminder that it is okay and that they are not a failure for not living the dream that they had when they were still a kid.

Everyone has their own time frame, we all get there when we get there. But for now, just be grateful. 😊

This post is not meant to offend anyone who is pursuing their passion, this is for those who feel like their life is going nowhere and they feel like they have no purpose because they are not going after what they want. 😊


LET’S FOLLOW EACH OTHER:

LATE NIGHT QUESTIONS | WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNEW YOU COULDN’T FAIL? 

Some of us are held back on doing things that we want to do because of our fear of failure but if for a day you knew that you couldn’t fail, what would you do?

Another question, another thing to ponder about. 

Maybe answering thing question may lead to knowing your passion. 

Do not be afraid to go after what you want. 😊

This is the first question in this series that I have an answer for… (but I’m going to keep it to myself). 😉

EXISTENTIALISM

Searching for a purpose for the lost cause. Blessed be those who knows what to do but guide those wandering souls in their wide cerebral universe that is narrowing down, every turn in the road seems to be a dead end and in what they call an existential crisis everything is questionable, everything is void of meaning. 

Finding the meaning of existing could lead to confusion, emotions start to rise and now you’re filling up your mind for what you thought would suffice the meaning of your life. Kill those monsters in your mind and start forming something to find your passion maybe from there your purpose will follow.