What is love?
We have always been asked this question, I think ever since when we were young and we often answer this with common answers that can be found on the internet but that’s their answers how about your personal answer? Have you already found it?
Some may have found it already while some are still searching for it. We have our own definition to the word love and it changes as to how we experience it. And as I’m experiencing it, it’s kind of a blurry vision that gets clearer and clearer as you wipe your eyes. I finally found my definition of love.
Love is a learning, it’s a choice, decision and a commitment. It’s not a feeling, it’s not something born out of sparks, it’s a progress. I don’t believe in love at first sight because you learn to love something or someone. It’s probably the hardest subject to study but it’s worth it. When you meet a person you learn their personality and you learn to accept it then you get fond of it, you accept even the worst parts of that person and that’s when you decide whether you want this person in your life and if you do, you commit to that person. It’s not about falling out of love, it’s a decision to stay when things get bumpy and it’s your choice if you still want that person.
As I’ve said we all have different definitions of love, you may or may not agree with what I’ve just stated in this post but what matters is your own perception of it and I hope you believe in love.
So, this is my version and definition of love. What’s yours? x