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INDECISIVE MIND

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I hate having too many options, I prefer to be in a situation choosing between life or death.

I hate shopping especially when it’s an unplanned one. Before I go to the mall I list down the things that I will be getting and specifically the brand and the style of it, I look in the internet first and trust me even browsing in the internet of the things that I would buy took me hours to decide what to get, what more if I initially go to the mall.

Choosing what to wear is another thing I hate and I always end up wearing just a plain shirt and jeans.

Don’t even get me started on this blogging, choosing the theme was a pain. It took me a day or two to really decide what the theme and look of the blog will be. That’s why I changed the blog’s title and the theme today again actually I changed it yesterday (see it took me a day lol). And I also had trouble with my previous account so I transferred this blog to this account. And thanked God there’s this import thing on wordpress so I got to follow all of the blogs that I have been following in my previous account.

Anyways…

Being indecisive takes up a lot of my time, thinking what to choose and when I finally decided I think again if I made the right decision and so there’s a big tendency that I regret every decisions that I made. Too much choices give me anxiety. I just really hate making decisions I wish everything was just laid out in front of me, everything was planned so I don’t have to make decisions.

12 thoughts on “INDECISIVE MIND”

  1. I love the new theme Joana! It took me so long to decide on my theme as well and I changed it a few times too. I’m glad you’re back writing 🙂 I missed seeing your posts!

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  2. I know exactly how you feel. I was and still am a bit the same way. We are afraid that the decision we make will be the wrong one. But what you need to tell yourself and truly believe is 1)in the grand scheme of things how much does it really matter 2) decide based on what makes you happy, not someone else 3) in most cases there are no “wrong” decisions. You need to lighten up on yourself, and always go back to #1 In the grand scheme of things how much does this really matter! If you buy some clothes and later decide you don’t like them, it’s not the end of the world. Here’s an exercise you can try, decide that for one day you will accept and go with the first decision you make about everything and see how your day goes. Try it, just for a day, regardless, go with your first thought. Good luck and let me know if you try it how it went!! 🙂

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